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If you are right then there is no need to get angry, And if you are wrong then you don’t have any right to get angry. Live this Moment with a Smile, It brings Cheers.!!!! |
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Mar 272011
Three things in life that, once gone, never come back
Three things in life that may never be lost
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Three things in life that are most valuable
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Three things in life that are never certain
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Three things that make a man/woman
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Three things in life that can destroy a man/woman
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Three things in life that, once lost, hard to build-up
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Three things in life that never fail
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Feb 072011
Beautiful Thought
Dec 252010
Once upon a time, there was once a guy who was very much in love with this girl.
This romantic guy folded 1,000 pieces of papercranes as a gift to his girl. Although, at that time he was just a small executive in his company, his future doesn't seemed too bright, they were very happy together. Until one day, his girl told him she was going to Paris and will never come back. She also told him that she cannot visualise any future for the both of them, so let's go their own ways there and then… Heartbroken, the guy agreed.
When he regained his confidence, he worked hard day and night, slogging his body and mind just to make something out of himself. Finally with all these hardwork and with the help of friends, this guy had set up his own company…
"You never fail until you stop trying." he always told himself. "I must make it in life!"
One rainy day, while this guy was driving, he saw an elderly couple sharing an umbrella in the rain walking to some destination. Even with the umbrella, they were still drenched. It didn't take him long to realise those were his ex-girlfriend's parents. With a heart in getting back at them, he drove slowly beside the couple, wanting them to spot him in his luxury sedan. He wanted them to know that he wasn't the same anymore, he had his own company, car, condo, etc. He had made it in life!
Before the guy can realise, the couple was walking towards a cemetary,and he got out of his car and followed them…and he saw his ex-girlfriend, a photograph of her smiling sweetly as ever at him from her tombstone… And he saw his precious papercranes in a bottle placed beside her tomb.
Her parents saw him. He walked over and asked them why this had happened. They explained, she did not leave for France at all. She was stricken ill with cancer. In her heart, she had believed that he will make it someday, but she did not want her illness to be his obstacle … Therefore she had chosen to leave him.
She had wanted her parents to put his papercranes beside her, because, if the day comes when fate brings him to her again he can take some of those back with him. The guy just wept …the worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them but knowing you can't have them and will never see them again.
Dec 162010
Dealing With Mistakes
We all make mistakes in life, however, different people deal with their mistakes in different ways.Many people try hard to avoid mistakes but in fact, mistakes can often lead to valuable learning experiences if you approach them in the right way.
Here is a simple 3 step approach for dealing with mistakes.
Step 1: Admit that you made a mistake
First admit you made a mistake to yourself. Then, if there is someone else involved, admit you made a mistake to them and apologize. The words, “I made a mistake and I’m sorry” are a great first step to resolving a conflict.
Denying that you made a mistake does not solve anything and simply prolongs the negative energy associated with the situation.
Step 2: Identify the lesson that comes with your mistake
The good news is that every mistake comes with a built in lesson that can help you improve your life in the future. To find your hidden lesson ask yourself, “What can I learn from this situation?”
By finding the hidden lesson within your mistake, you immediately transform the situation from a negative experience to a useful learning experience.
Step 3: Forgive yourself and let it go
All too often we dwell on our mistakes and continue to beat ourselves up over what happened. Once you have admitted your mistake and identified the lesson it carries, let go of the mistake, forgive yourself and move on. If a similar situation arises in the future, you are now better prepared to choose the right course of action.
Next time you make a mistake, try this simple three step approach and see for yourself how it can transform a mistake into a useful learning experience.